In The Ballpark

From our perspective, one of contemporary dating's biggest challenges for daters and date-makers alike is knowing when to say "yes" to a suggestion for a shidduch and when to make the suggestion in the first place. We know how demoralizing it is for singles to hear ideas for potential matches that seem so far afield that they don't believe the people making the suggestions understand what they are looking for. We also know that it is even more frustrating for a dater to be accused of being too picky, or not serious about wanting to get married, because they turned down a suggestion for someone whose qualities sound very different from what he or she is looking for.

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